Big Boned

I am reading "Passing for Thin" by Frances Kuffel. This comes on the heels of someone I know "trying" to help me with my weighty battle. She told me she dreamed I had lost all the weight I wanted and was finally happy. So now, she is sending me her positive thoughts so I can use them to help me reach my goal. I wanted to throw this book at her and say, here's your postive thoughts sweetie. I am not sure why her comments made me so angry. I am not sure if she will ever understand. I am also not sure I can do what Ms. Kuffel did by losing weight, twice. I so want to but it's so so very hard. I am going to stop now and pick this up again. I have to think and then maybe think again.